Somethings in this world can't have proper definitions, these things are the feelings...
What are feelings, why are they inculcated in us, would it be better if we were without feelings , are they benefitial to us or are they just our thoughts...
First of all let me state it very clear this article is about love , I am single ,I am no love guru or something like that neither what I am writing is my personal experience, its my observation.
So what are feelings. According to Wikipedia, Google and some other search engines feelings are an emotional state with high sensitivity and intuitive understanding
Well I don't say that's wrong and obviously it can't be but what I as person feels that feelings are changes in the body that just changes our thoughts, let me point out an example...
Suppose I was sitting in front of my TV watching some movie or anything I saw a scene regarding trust or love , my body released hormones like oxytocin (More Info.) what next it builds up a background for my upcoming thoughts like I will remember someone I love or I trust, you getting my point(if not re read assuming yourself in the situation).
So it was just thought manipulation, reason being hormonal change or anything may be the scene what we think its up to us(but wait who's this us is it we or our brain I say ,I think to move my leg but basically the brain thinks and send signals to its other parts to move the leg).
So now we are clear what are feelings, why are they inculcated in us well think that yourself.....
Just kidding, there is no point like why are they inculcated in us because they are nothing that particularly exists its just a manipulation process due to some reasons ,I stated earlier.
Are they beneficial, well I think you know the answer you do feel every second, feelings changes, changes goes on in your body
They are equally beneficial and harmful. They can extend your limits ,make you more powerful for a point of time ,can set fears in your mind, can affect you so badly that you lose control on yourselves as they just behaves as manipulators(for those in comp. Science feeling behaves as pointers).
If they weren't in us nothing like humanity ,love ,anger ,murder ,rape and other may exist life would have no shape and way to go ahead, no reason, even thoughts would have stopped, that's hell I SAY.
So now let's talk in particular about love.
Well firstly I state it very clear that there are some things like these we are talking about, which cannot be defined the same by everyone...
What is love according to me and the data I collected, It is an art to find out happiness by making others happy, yeah just that much. Thus definition can be expanded to a lot more but you will(what I feel) always end up with what I stated above.
So this is called love , parents get happy when gift their child what they want ,its love ; when a boy gifts a girl something she love or even wishes her on occasion, she feel happy and the boy too (vice versa also) , its love
Its all about sharing happiness, responsibilities, time and even yourself.
Its connecting two souls basically.
Let me tell you a story, keep this a secret ,its just between me and you:
(Feel as you go)
Once there was boy and a girl, they both loved each other a lot, they do things together, they sit together, eat together even fight together and much more, everything was perfect but one day another girl came in between them boy started loving her, her ex-girl felt jealous got away and a week later committed suicide and left a letter for the boy... A day later boy came to know of this ,he got the letter ,cried ,opened it, the letter was like this...
Hi dear,
I know you are crying by this time, if you love me a little just stop crying and don't feel guilty that I did this because of you ,rather I did it for you
I want you to be happy always, but its true too that I can't live without you.
Trust me I don't hate you and I happy to see you happy , I will live inside you ...
Your girl.
So what was this, its a very small story nothing complicated but yeah touching ,why????
Its our tendency to be practical when we hear ,read ,watch things around us ,its basically the learning process(by which we now know things right from out birth)
What we just felt while reading was nothing than the feeling of love, we can feel it ,its lot more than defining something if we can rather make someone feel it...
Its power of love...
Love ,Like and Attraction are the three terms that seems to be same but shares a deep difference, very necessary to understand.
Love is what I explained you above, its when we just cares about the other, may just because it makes us happy, and if this is selfishness than yes we are selfish...
Like is when we care about something or we are interested in something but not necessarily that things is very important to us like I like cars,they make me feels good but its not that I can't live without that so liking is a minor stage of love.
For more info on different between love and like(Click Here)
Attraction is when we feel connected to something, a deep inner bond
Remember, if I love something, it surely attracts me ..but if something attracts me its not necessary that I love that thing....
Its the main ddifference between love and attraction.
For more info on different between love and attraction (Click Here)
I purposely write these blogs in a wat that it ends a way letting you think upon the topic ,if it happens surely you will be maximum benefited by these blogs.
My purpose to write blogs is not so you get the complete knowledge of that thing(even the term getting complete knowledge of anything is hoax as it has never happened yet) rather my purpose is to share thoughts with the audience and hence forth sharing the knowledge I thought to be necessary...
Well meet you again soon with a promise of getting something very strong this time, till than do whatever you want to do....
Also if you find the info helpful please please let me know via the comment section, the more you comment and share archcindus, the more people will know of it
You can also mail me directly at archc.indus0777@gmail.com or check archcindus.blogspot.com for my other blogs, also stay connected to me on Facebook on my page Archcindus link:.
https://m.facebook.com/Archcindus-1721634681449722/
What are feelings, why are they inculcated in us, would it be better if we were without feelings , are they benefitial to us or are they just our thoughts...
First of all let me state it very clear this article is about love , I am single ,I am no love guru or something like that neither what I am writing is my personal experience, its my observation.
So what are feelings. According to Wikipedia, Google and some other search engines feelings are an emotional state with high sensitivity and intuitive understanding
Well I don't say that's wrong and obviously it can't be but what I as person feels that feelings are changes in the body that just changes our thoughts, let me point out an example...
Suppose I was sitting in front of my TV watching some movie or anything I saw a scene regarding trust or love , my body released hormones like oxytocin (More Info.) what next it builds up a background for my upcoming thoughts like I will remember someone I love or I trust, you getting my point(if not re read assuming yourself in the situation).
So it was just thought manipulation, reason being hormonal change or anything may be the scene what we think its up to us(but wait who's this us is it we or our brain I say ,I think to move my leg but basically the brain thinks and send signals to its other parts to move the leg).
So now we are clear what are feelings, why are they inculcated in us well think that yourself.....
Just kidding, there is no point like why are they inculcated in us because they are nothing that particularly exists its just a manipulation process due to some reasons ,I stated earlier.
Are they beneficial, well I think you know the answer you do feel every second, feelings changes, changes goes on in your body
They are equally beneficial and harmful. They can extend your limits ,make you more powerful for a point of time ,can set fears in your mind, can affect you so badly that you lose control on yourselves as they just behaves as manipulators(for those in comp. Science feeling behaves as pointers).
If they weren't in us nothing like humanity ,love ,anger ,murder ,rape and other may exist life would have no shape and way to go ahead, no reason, even thoughts would have stopped, that's hell I SAY.
So now let's talk in particular about love.
Well firstly I state it very clear that there are some things like these we are talking about, which cannot be defined the same by everyone...
What is love according to me and the data I collected, It is an art to find out happiness by making others happy, yeah just that much. Thus definition can be expanded to a lot more but you will(what I feel) always end up with what I stated above.
So this is called love , parents get happy when gift their child what they want ,its love ; when a boy gifts a girl something she love or even wishes her on occasion, she feel happy and the boy too (vice versa also) , its love
Its all about sharing happiness, responsibilities, time and even yourself.
Its connecting two souls basically.
Let me tell you a story, keep this a secret ,its just between me and you:
(Feel as you go)
Once there was boy and a girl, they both loved each other a lot, they do things together, they sit together, eat together even fight together and much more, everything was perfect but one day another girl came in between them boy started loving her, her ex-girl felt jealous got away and a week later committed suicide and left a letter for the boy... A day later boy came to know of this ,he got the letter ,cried ,opened it, the letter was like this...
Hi dear,
I know you are crying by this time, if you love me a little just stop crying and don't feel guilty that I did this because of you ,rather I did it for you
I want you to be happy always, but its true too that I can't live without you.
Trust me I don't hate you and I happy to see you happy , I will live inside you ...
Your girl.
So what was this, its a very small story nothing complicated but yeah touching ,why????
Its our tendency to be practical when we hear ,read ,watch things around us ,its basically the learning process(by which we now know things right from out birth)
What we just felt while reading was nothing than the feeling of love, we can feel it ,its lot more than defining something if we can rather make someone feel it...
Its power of love...
Love ,Like and Attraction are the three terms that seems to be same but shares a deep difference, very necessary to understand.
Love is what I explained you above, its when we just cares about the other, may just because it makes us happy, and if this is selfishness than yes we are selfish...
Like is when we care about something or we are interested in something but not necessarily that things is very important to us like I like cars,they make me feels good but its not that I can't live without that so liking is a minor stage of love.
For more info on different between love and like(Click Here)
Attraction is when we feel connected to something, a deep inner bond
Remember, if I love something, it surely attracts me ..but if something attracts me its not necessary that I love that thing....
Its the main ddifference between love and attraction.
For more info on different between love and attraction (Click Here)
I purposely write these blogs in a wat that it ends a way letting you think upon the topic ,if it happens surely you will be maximum benefited by these blogs.
My purpose to write blogs is not so you get the complete knowledge of that thing(even the term getting complete knowledge of anything is hoax as it has never happened yet) rather my purpose is to share thoughts with the audience and hence forth sharing the knowledge I thought to be necessary...
Well meet you again soon with a promise of getting something very strong this time, till than do whatever you want to do....
Also if you find the info helpful please please let me know via the comment section, the more you comment and share archcindus, the more people will know of it
You can also mail me directly at archc.indus0777@gmail.com or check archcindus.blogspot.com for my other blogs, also stay connected to me on Facebook on my page Archcindus link:.
https://m.facebook.com/Archcindus-1721634681449722/
Comments
Infatuation-attraction which feels like love but fades away with time.
Love-feeling which completes you and can even make you cry or laugh even if you think about it after ages.
It never fades away.
You may hide it but you cannot vanish it.