In one's life span he/she comes across thousands of peoples, henceforth hundreds of relations he make throughout his life namely friends, brothers, sisters, mates etc and etc.
What is relation as a process, why is it done, is there any contradiction of humans as a social animal???
These are some of the very basic questions one might think of...
Let's understand them the way much beyond we know and try to find some answers.
Believe me or not but its just the selfish nature of humans that leads us to relations, may be for money , pleasure ,love ,attraction, feeling of devotion, feeling attached, closeness etc ,these can be the purpose for one to get in contact of more people. Power and position are the needs of today's man... #fact
Its not like we do make relations knowingly for just our benefit, (deep inside)its our brain it knows what it can get from the one in front of us ,what relation is to be maintained. We may not come across these thinking's in some cases like our parents , besties, teachers etc because an another feeling of attachment and respect is of much higher importance yet to be considered at that particular time so we just don't pay more attention about benefits...(although some benefits still do exists)
Let's have this via an example,
We have always came across a line ,that "humans are social animals", But its not exactly the same... Well yes we feel good in a company but doesn't makes it our requirement.
What they have been saying that its all about attraction (moh Maya) was true , its our nature we find someone important we join him, why we don't make beggar our friend, whats special in a banks manager, company owners, richies, high officials or even a barber or a shop keeper that we make a kind of bond with them just because to ease our lives.
So truly humans are no social animal rather they tend to make their tomorrow easy.
Its not a point of shame in being selfish and expecting something from other in return, because we were all meant that way and yes we do pay back same benefits to others..
It isn't necessary for us to be with someone , if we treat all as one, all as equally important life would be easy not only for us but for others too ,why special treatments when normal treatments do make a sense☺
Its not like relations are wrong we are related to our parents our Society, we are all humans we are all one than why one attacks other, why terrorism, why not understanding ones of our own kind.
Just do think upon this once ,its not just a point of talk, we are good the way we are going and we can keep going that way, but why not to try something #different.
Yes its true that I am talking both in favour and against of relations just because to force you to think what is a relation for you,
What all I have written here won't clear you anything about what I want from you ,believe me its you ,you have to think what you are gonna do with your life, why not to try something new ,its easy to ignore things and its more easy to follow up someone, but its legendery to be the way you are, follow youself.
I could have chosen any normal topic of today but I want you to understand that with time changing there are some things some definitions that need to be changed,
Definition is not only what defines you about a thing rather its you interpretation and hence changes from person to person, circumstances rules life, but root remains the same , find out the root definition- the one that unites everything.
Comment what according to you is a relation and what you think of it now,it is very difficult to change our perception of what we think of something but we have to keep changing it because we don't know which perception was right, this was my perception plus what i understood from all around, also mail me some ideas ,some thoughts at archc.indus0777@gmail.com also you can check my blogs at archcindus.blogspot.com. Also like and share my facebook page:https://m.facebook.com/Archcindus-1721634681449722/
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